Reasons to be Thankful | 1 Thessalonians 1:1-5a

Reasons to be Thankful | 1 Thessalonians 1:1-5a
Aaron Gray

Discussion Questions:

1. Where are you tempted to fall into ingratitude, entitlement, and a lack of thankfulness? What things might be too important in your heart (i.e. idols)?

2. Why is the good news of the gospel the only real foundation for true gratitude? Why are other foundations lacking?

3. Of the three heart-level qualities (faith, hope, love), which one is the Lord leading you to focus on in this current season?

4. Of the three practical actions (godly works, labors of service, endurance), which one is the Lord leading you to focus on in this current season?

Prayer Points

1. Take time to praise and thank God for his many blessings, both in creation and redemption. Thank him and praise him for as many different things as you can think of.

2. Pray that God would increase our “work produced by faith, labor motivated by love, and endurance inspired by hope in Jesus.” Ask God for endurance, for growth in godly character, and opportunities to serve those in need.

A Gospel-Birthed Church | Acts 17:1-9

A Gospel-Birthed Church | Acts 17:1-9
Aaron Gray

Discussion Questions:

  1. Even though we are separated by historical distance, what things can we relate with the church in Thessalonica about? What things are significantly different?

  2. Can you think of other examples of things that a church can rally around that might be good things, but fall short of a gospel foundation? Why is it critically important for a church to make the gospel its deepest foundation?

  3. What does being gospel-centered look like in your life individually? What about your family or closest relationships?

  4. When you invite someone to consider Jesus, how can you make sure that you’re sharing THE gospel, not just telling them about something the church does?

Prayer Points

  1. Pray that the gospel would be our deepest foundation as individuals, families, small groups, and a church.

  2. Pray that God would use us to share the good news in such a way that it would turn the north sound “upside down,” like Thessalonica.

The One Where Some Young Women are Smart, and Others are Dumb | Matthew 25:1-13

The One Where Some Young Women are Smart, and Others are Dumb | Matthew 25:1-13
Aaron Gray

Discussion questions

  1. What specific need or issue is being addressed by Jesus in this parable?

  2. What truth does the parable reveal to a believer? What truth does the parable hide from an unbeliever?

  3. How does this parable help you imagine life in the Kingdom of God?

  4. What action steps do you need to take in light of this parable?

  5. How does this parable move you toward prayer: for yourself, your family, our church, and for non-Christians in your life?

The One About Bugging Your Neighbor in the Middle of the Night | Luke 11:5-13

The One About Bugging Your Neighbor in the Middle of the Night | Luke 11:5-13
Myeong Hong

Discussion questions

  1. What specific need or issue is being addressed by Jesus in this parable?

  2. What truth does the parable reveal to a believer? What truth does the parable hide from an unbeliever?

  3. How does this parable help you imagine life in the Kingdom of God?

  4. What action steps do you need to take in light of this parable?

  5. How does this parable move you toward prayer: for yourself, your family, our church, and for non-Christians in your life?

The One Where Nobody Shows Up | Luke 14:15-24

The One Where Nobody Shows Up | Luke 14:15-24
Aaron Gray

Discussion questions

  1. What specific need or issue is being addressed by Jesus in this parable?

  2. What truth does the parable reveal to a believer? What truth does the parable hide from an unbeliever?

  3. How does this parable help you imagine life in the Kingdom of God?

  4. What action steps do you need to take in light of this parable?

  5. How does this parable move you toward prayer: for yourself, your family, our church, and for non Christians in your life?

The One About a Farmer Planting Seeds | Matthew 13:1-9, 18-23

The One About a Farmer Planting Seeds | Matthew 13:1-9, 18-23
Jeremiah Robinson

Discussion questions

  1. What specific need or issue is being addressed by Jesus in this parable?

  2. What truth does the parable reveal to a believer? What truth does the parable hide from an unbeliever?

  3. How does this parable help you imagine life in the Kingdom of God?

  4. What action steps do you need to take in light of this parable?

  5. How does this parable move you toward prayer: for yourself, your family, our church, and for non Christians in your life?

The One With a Dead Fig Tree | Luke 13:6-9

The One With a Dead Fig Tree | Luke 13: 6-9
Aaron Gray

Discussion questions

  1. What specific need or issue is being addressed by Jesus in this parable?

  2. What truth does the parable reveal to a believer? What truth does the parable hide from an unbeliever?

  3. How does this parable help you imagine life in the Kingdom of God?

  4. What action steps do you need to take in light of this parable?

  5. How does this parable move you toward prayer: for yourself, your family, our church, and for non Christians in your life?

The One Where a Guy is Not Very Forgiving | Matthew 18:23-35

The One Where a Guy is Not Very Forgiving | Matthew 18:23-35
Steve Jones

Discussion questions

  1. What specific need or issue is being addressed by Jesus in this parable?

  2. What truth does the parable reveal to a believer? What truth does the parable hide from an unbeliever?

  3. How does this parable help you imagine life in the Kingdom of God?

  4. What action steps do you need to take in light of this parable?

  5. How does this parable move you toward prayer: for yourself, your family, our church, and for non Christians in your life?

The One Where Everything is Lost and Then Found | Luke 15

The One Where Everything is Lost and Then Found | Luke 15
Aaron Gray

Discussion questions

  1. What specific need or issue is being addressed by Jesus in this parable?

  2. What truth does the parable reveal to a believer? What truth does the parable hide from an unbeliever?

  3. How does this parable help you imagine life in the Kingdom of God?

  4. What action steps do you need to take in light of this parable?

  5. How does this parable move you toward prayer: for yourself, your family, our church, and for non Christians in your life?

The One Where Two Guys Each Build a House | Matthew 7:24-29

The One Where Two Guys Each Build a House | Matthew 7:24-29
Jason Smith

Discussion questions

  1. What specific need or issue is being addressed by Jesus in this parable?

  2. What truth does the parable reveal to a believer? What truth does the parable hide from an unbeliever?

  3. How does this parable help you imagine life in the Kingdom of God?

  4. What action steps do you need to take in light of this parable?

  5. How does this parable move you toward prayer: for yourself, your family, our church, and for non Christians in your life?

The One About a Tiny Seed Growing into a Huge Tree | Mark 4:30-32

Discussion questions

  1. What specific need or issue is being addressed by Jesus in this parable?

  2. What truth does the parable reveal to a believer? What truth does the parable hide from an unbeliever?

  3. How does this parable help you imagine life in the Kingdom of God?

  4. What action steps do you need to take in light of this parable?

  5. How does this parable move you toward prayer: for yourself, your family, our church, and for non Christians in your life?

The One About a Tiny Seed Growing into a Huge Tree | Mark 4:30-32
Aaron Gray

Aaron Ruins 'Do You Hear What I Hear?' | Ephesians 1:7-12

Aaron Ruins 'Do You Hear What I Hear?' | Ephesians 1:7-12
Aaron Gray

Read Galatians 4:3-5

Pastor and author Tim Keller says, “If we impose our understanding of schedule & timing on Jesus, we will struggle to feel loved by Him.” Galatians tells us that God caused his son to be born, “when the fullness of time had come.” His timing is intentional in sending Jesus, in salvation, and even in the days of our lives. God knows what he is doing, but our view of things  is so limited that it can be hard for us to trust sometimes. This time of year, remembering that Jesus' birth was planned and came to pass at the “fullness of time,” can help us continue to trust God and persevere in faith.

Discussion Questions

  • Have you ever struggled to trust God’s timing?

  • Do you have a testimony about a time when God’s timing proved to be just right?

  • Talk about God’s perspective and sense of timing compared to our own.

  • Pray that God would help you have an eternal perspective, to trust in him in the here and now and to hope for the time when he will make all things new.

Read Chapter 2 of Is Christmas Unbelievable: Can we take the Bible seriously?

Family Activity Time to bake those Christmas goodies! In any baking recipe every ingredient has a purpose. For example, in a cake flour gives the structure, eggs bind the ingredients, baking powder and baking soda make it rise, fats like butter and oil make it less chewy, and sugar sweetens and keeps it moist. Every part has a purpose, and the time spent in the oven matters too.

In the Christmas story, we know that all the details are important. They speak of things that were prophesied that then came to pass. The Bible also tells us that Jesus was born at the exact right time in history. Why didn’t he come earlier to lead the people instead of Moses or King David? Why didn’t he wait until later when your grandparents were little or even now? We don’t really know, but God does. In the book of Galatians it’s called, “the fullness of time.” This means the time was just right. Ask kids what would happen if we took our Christmas goodies out of the oven too soon. What would happen if we left them in too long? Have you ever burned the cookies before?

When your treats are ready to taste, thank God together that he sent Jesus when he knew that the time was just right!